You’re about to discover how to get a girlfriend by becoming her obvious choice, so the girl you like chooses you over all the other guys chasing her.
There’s no wishy washy bullsh*t here like “be more confident” or “talk to more girls”.
Just 20 proven steps you can start using right now to attract the girl you like and make her your girlfriend.
So if you’re sick of being single and want a girlfriend to wake up next to every morning then keep reading…
Part 1. Meeting Girls
1. Stop trying to get a girlfriend.
The first step to getting a girlfriend is to stop trying. Instead go into every new interaction you have with women expecting nothing in return. You’ll be surprised by how “not giving a shit” about the outcome makes girls chase you.
You see, most guys will do everything they can to please girls into liking them, but guys who couldn’t care less about impressing random girls stand out like a rose amongst thorns.
Women want a challenge, so when a guy comes along who isn’t afraid to speak his mind and disagree with women it shows he’s a guy worth talking to.
2. Make her notice you.
Wear items of clothing and jewellery that attract women and start conversations. Leather jackets, jewellery and tailored suits are a great place to start. You could even go as far as getting that tattoo you’ve always wanted
Anything you can do to mix things up from how you present yourself will work wonders at attracting a whole new wave of female attention.
3. Get ready to approach her.
Before you approach her get rid of any other excuses that are stopping you in your tracks, for example, assuming she won’t be interested in you if you’ve never had a girlfriend.
Limiting beliefs like that will get you nowhere.
Here’s how to re-write some common negative excuses with positive reasons to TAKE ACTION!
“It’s no use talking to her, she won’t be interested in me” = “I should go talk to her she looks bored”
“She’s out of my league” = “I wonder if she’s cool enough to hang out with?”
This will help you approach girls you like with positivity and you’ll naturally become an extremely attractive guy to be around.
4. Approach her with confidence.
Now that you’re ready, it’s time to approach her. Smile, relax your body language and approach in a non confrontational way like you’d do when you’re in Wallmart asking a shelf stacker where the butter’s at.
As you talk to her watch that your vocal inflection isn’t too high and annoying like you need
something, for example when a beggar says “excuse me, can you spare any change???” No one can stand needy requests from strangers they’ve just met, especially “excuse me”. That’s a big attraction killer right there.
Instead use a neutral or downwards vocal inflection. If you have a voice like Vin Diesel then you’re in luck
As you’re talking to her make sure you keep smiling and lean a little backwards so you’re not all up in her face. Hold eye contact and tell her why you simply had to come say hello.
The best way to do this is with a genuine compliment.
5.Give her a genuine compliment.
Tell her exactly why you approached her and be as specific if you can. Use the first think you noticed about her that attracted you. Perhaps it’s her her cute smile, her dimples, or if you see her a lot maybe this time her hair is tied back for the first time.
If she’s a stranger and you meet her in the day, “Hey, I know this is random but I just walked past you and thought I have to go back and talk to that girl.”
But if you meet her in a bar there’s no need to mention any awkwardness. Just “Hello” or “Hi, I saw you from across the bar.” is enough
6. Tease her.
Teasing is the easiest way to create sexual tension between you and a girl you like. Start teasing girls on a regular basis.
For example, if a girl says she likes cats you can say “Wait…you’re a cat lady? How many cats do you have? If it’s more than 9 we’re not gonna work out”.
In the split second it takes for her to realise you’re just teasing (and not insulting her) she experiences a massive feeling of euphoric relief. That feeling is usually accompanied by laughter and maybe even a punch on the arm for you if you’re lucky
The more you tease women and give them that little tension to relief “high”, the more they’ll become attracted, because when you fearlessly tease women it sends them a subconscious message that your genes rock.
It shows her you’re a not afraid of risking confrontation and that she can rely on you to stick to your beliefs and tell the truth. You’re a protector not a pushover.
Opportunities for teasing will happen naturally when you stick to your opinions and stop fake agreeing with women to please them all the time.
Always be looking out for cute things she says or does so you can point them out as being cute or funny.
7.Focus on her for conversation.
Listen to her and make her the main subject of your conversation. You’ll create countless opportunities for teasing her and you’ll never be lost for conversation topics.
It’s no secret that girls like guys who listen to them so give her what she wants: Your ears.
When the focus is on her you leave much less room for error from your side, plus it gives you plenty of opportunities to tease her since she’ll hand deliver material to you on a silver platter.
Why did you choose this table? No, clearly you chose it because you saw me sitting here!
What brought you to the park? Oh, I thought you were rummaging for food in the bins!
Why do you hate dogs? She must be a cat lady. Assume she has twelve cats.
As soon as you disagree with something or find something she says cute you can say “I don’t think you and me are going to get along”, or something to that effect.
She’ll walk away from the conversation thinking “that guy was so much fun” when actually all she was doing was talking about herself. But remember, you mustn’t let her walk away until you get her number.
8. Get her number.
When you feel like the conversation has reached it’s peak, make your excuses for leaving and get her number.
Even if you’re in a bar and she’s not going anywhere it’s always good to walk away for a bit to go join your mates and give her some space so she rejoin her friends and tell them all about you.
Chances are later in the night she’ll come find you again and you can take things further.
This is what’s known as the push-pull effect. It’s always important to pull back a little in any fresh interaction so she doesn’t get worried you’re never going to leave.
To get her number simply hand her your phone and tell her you’ll text her.